One of the very first things I learned about Mike was that he had a sister also named Kelly and a younger brother, Adam. He told me, "They are two of my best friends." I admit I was intimidated by the bonds Mike had with his siblings...there was this rhythm of love, playful mockery, respect, and did I mention the mockery! There was something rare and amazing about these three...
Now the rhythm has been disrupted with Mike's absence...I ache most for Kelly and Adam, for the loss they carry. And this month has held many bittersweet moments, including both Kelly and Adam's birthday...I would really do anything to have Mike be here, to say in his own words, to offer his own smile, to show how deeply he loved them.
If he was here I know these are just a few reasons why he'd celebrate his sister...
she loved him, truly unconditionally.
she was fiercely protective of him, but was never hesitate to lovingly tease him.
she respected him as a therapist, affirming and validating his gifts. and he admired her as a therapist and learned so much from her wisdom and insight.
what an amazing mom she is to her four kids
her kindness and trustworthy heart
she was a HUGE fan of his mocha lattes
And I feel immensely grateful and blessed with her friendship now...we're forming a new rhythm that is a mix of love, sorrow, laughter, honesty. I love her so much for who she was to Mike and for who she continues to be for me.
Now the rhythm has been disrupted with Mike's absence...I ache most for Kelly and Adam, for the loss they carry. And this month has held many bittersweet moments, including both Kelly and Adam's birthday...I would really do anything to have Mike be here, to say in his own words, to offer his own smile, to show how deeply he loved them.
If he was here I know these are just a few reasons why he'd celebrate his sister...
she loved him, truly unconditionally.
she was fiercely protective of him, but was never hesitate to lovingly tease him.
she respected him as a therapist, affirming and validating his gifts. and he admired her as a therapist and learned so much from her wisdom and insight.
what an amazing mom she is to her four kids
her kindness and trustworthy heart
she was a HUGE fan of his mocha lattes
And I feel immensely grateful and blessed with her friendship now...we're forming a new rhythm that is a mix of love, sorrow, laughter, honesty. I love her so much for who she was to Mike and for who she continues to be for me.
2 comments:
I am so thankful you have Kelly in your life. She sounds incredible.
mmm... I remember one of those mochas at your apt. in Mill Creek. yum! It has been "nice" (not sure that is the best word possible) catching up on you. Even though we didn't really keep in touch you have been on my mind and heart quite frequently. praying for you this evening....
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